If your brain is a mess, write things down.
You don’t have to be organized everywhere. Choose where it matters.
An all-black outfit is allowed to have ridiculous socks.
Don’t underestimate shoes. They can change the version of you that shows up.
Look at what people are wearing, but never just to judge them.
Notice how people walk and how they carry themselves.
When you enter a room, understand its energy before deciding how much space to take.
Adapt to the people around you without disappearing into them.
Learn languages while you have the chance.
Go somewhere that makes you question the superiority of where you came from.
Treat second-hand shops like archives.
Buy fewer things, but keep looking for the right thing.
Use Instagram as an archive of your life, not only as proof that you have one.
Keep the objects that inexplicably feel like yours.
A place can become home simply because you are inside it.
You don’t need to have your “real adult home” figured out while your life is still moving.
Make things even when nobody else is going to see them.
Never stop at the first no.
Be a conseguidora.
Assume, at least occasionally, that you have a star in your ass
WOLFGANG TILLMANS (B. 1968) | Strümpfe, 2002
You can read the full conversation with Dorleta here, and you can read the question Dorleta asked me + my answer here.